Where and why
My first trip to Europe was with DH and my parents, about ten years ago. My second trip to Europe was also with DH and my parents. On our third trip, DH and I were very nervous about venturing out on our own; no safety net, no Mom or Dad to cling to if something went wrong. That was five years ago. It's hard to believe that since then I've gained enough confidence to travel through Europe (not just to Europe) alone…with my two children.
DH was being deployed to Landstuhl, Germany for about four months. Our kids, ages 8 and 6, with two European trips
already under their belt, had proven to be excellent travelers. It seemed logical for me to fly to Germany with them so
we could visit DH. Frankfurt is the closest major airport to Landstuhl, but I'd been to Frankfurt before and
didn't think there was anything there to really interest the kids or me. Paris isn't that far
away….hmmmmm. I love Paris. For years I'd been keeping a mental list of
things my kids would enjoy in Paris. Alright, why not fly into Paris and spend a few days there during the week while
DH is working? Good idea. Then where to fly out of at the end of the
trip? I examined the map to see what other cities were nearby.
Zurich. I'd never been to Switzerland, and flights into Paris and out of Zurich were pretty cheap. Done! I'd committed to flying alone with my children to one of the biggest and busiest
cities on the continent, dragging everybody and our luggage onto the train to a place I'd never been where they speak a language I don't know, then
once again herding everyone and everything onto the train to yet another unfamiliar city. Sounds like fun, right?!
I did have moments where I panicked. What if we got lost? What if we got on the wrong train? What if my purse got stolen or lost? What if we got separated? What if….what if….what if….
In preparation
The "what if we got separated" scenario was the one that scared me the most. I alleviated this fear somewhat
by coaching the kids on what to do if we couldn't find each other, then I gave them each a laminated card with my cell phone number. They carried it in their pocket every day. I think I stressed the importance of staying
together without scaring them too much.
This being my third trip to Europe with the kids, I pretty much knew how and what to pack. I had keep it light, though, since we'd be carrying our luggage with us onto the trains. I knew DH had a washer and dryer in Landstuhl, so I could count on doing laundry in the middle of the trip.
What we did
This world begins and ends with Paris, doesn't it? <chuckle>
Seriously, the beauty of Paris absolutely takes my breath away. The parks, the monuments, the tree-lined
boulevards, and Haussmann's bold and masterful vision for the city just knock me over. If Heaven has big cities
like we do on earth, I suspect the city I live in will look and function like Paris. So, naturally, I wanted to share
this special place with my children. We spent four days here, including our good-for-nothing-jet-lagged day.
Our next adventure began with the high-speed ICE train to Germany. We went all the way to Landstuhl, where we met up with DH. The kids and I spent about 24 hours resting up in Landstuhl, then the four of us took a road trip to the Alsace region of France. I read an article in the San Diego Union-Tribune's Travel section about the Alsace region 8-9 years ago. The photos and descriptions stayed with me, and I'd been patiently waiting for an opportunity to experience this magical place. Only a 3 hour drive from Landstuhl, this seemed to be the time. We stayed two nights in Colmar, then visited the smaller town of Kaysersberg on our way back to Landstuhl.
The kids and I had three more full days with DH in Landstuhl. The weather was turning cold and rainy, and sometimes snowy, so we had to prioritize our to-do list. On our best weather day, we all drove up to Vianden Castle in Luxembourg. A new friend who lives in Landstuhl mentioned it and said her children really enjoyed it. It took about 3 minutes of research for me to conclude that we would enjoy it, too. Our other two days in Landstuhl were spent relaxing and watching the icky weather through the window. We did manage to drive up the hill to Nanstein Castle, and have dinner with friends at the castle in nearby Kusel, but we did not get to Heidelberg as planned.
With DH back at work, the kids and I said goodbye and took the train to Zurich. We spent 2.5 days exploring the Zurich area before flying back to Tulsa.
So, how did it go?
This trip was different than any other I'd taken. Obviously, I was traveling alone with two
children. But we also covered a lot of ground: four countries in two weeks!
Typically when DH and I travel to Europe, we are "slow travelers." We like to settle in one place, learn a
little of the language, soak up the culture, establish a routine, and maybe even find a favorite restaurant and/or grocery store. This trip certainly did not follow our usual formula. Hopping around from place to place
kept me on my toes, and it was exciting to see so many new things, but having to constantly shift gears, pack and repack, accidentally saying "merci"
instead of "danke," and not really getting beyond a superficial glance of any one place threw me a little. I
suspect that we'll return to our familiar, slower travel style next time around.
Okay, the traveling with the kids part: it was hard, but it was also one of the most rewarding things I've ever done. It was great to see DH, see where he lived and worked, and spend some quality time with him. But the time I had alone with the kids was awesome, too. The three of us really bonded, as we had to cooperate and work as a team to get where we needed to go. My 6 year old son had the "eagle eyes" and became very adept at spotting the correct metro line, street sign, or walk signal at the crosswalk. My 8 year old daughter was fascinated by everything we saw, and her enthusiasm kept us all in good spirits. For two weeks I shared a hotel room with my kids and was rarely more than 10 feet away from them, and I really got to know them. DH laughed when I told him that-he said "of course you know your kids, you're their mom!" Well, sure, but for this entire trip they had my complete, undivided attention, which rarely happens at home. We experienced new things together, struggled together, got excited about things together, and laughed together. It was wonderful.
More to come! I'll include pictures and details about each destination.












